Do you think about how you treat those around you?

Harmony Woodington C.Ht.
3 min readJun 18, 2022

These moments with Dakar are ones I truly enjoy. Him sitting there completely content, one claw up, looking so happy.

Anyone who knows senegals knows it can be a challenge. They are loud, possessive, jealous, hormonal and can bite for so many reasons.

I can’t have Dakar out of his cage unless I am prepared to give him my undivided attention or he will bite me out of jealousy.

If I have my hands on anything but him, he attacks me or the thing I am paying with (phone, computer, cross stitch etc).

He is so lovely when I give him my full attention though.

Dakar is very driven by his hormones and is very much a victim of it. His spring fever is so extreme we give him hormone shots because he becomes impossible to deal with.

I love and accept him for everything he is and choose to work with him knowing and understanding what drives his behaviour.

I’m sure he appreciates having a mate who gets him and accepts everything he is. I will never change his nature because he is what he is. All I can do is give him the free agency to be what he is and work with him.

This relationship is such a great example of how beautiful a relationship could be if we just accepted people for who they are. If we didn’t try to change the person and make them be or do things to make us happy.

What if we give people free agency to be their unfiltered selves and unconditionally loved them?

We are all divine beings having a human experience. If we chose to see each other that way and interacted with that in mind what would this world be like?

There are two types of people (adults) in this world,

1. Those stuck in their refining fire.

2. Those who have stepped out of their refining fire and on the expansion path.

I love everyone and everything on this planet and I choose to cherry-pick those on the expansion path.

Those who are in my orbit I love and accept freely and see them as divine beings. Being in a world surrounded by amazing people who are all seeking expansion, and talking about grand-scale concepts is such a beautiful place to be.

Ask yourself:

Do you accept those around you for who they are?

Do you try to change people to make them fit into your world?

Do you seek things from the people you interact with for your happiness?

Do you contribute to the people you interact with?

Do you lift up empower and inspire those around you?

Do you judge and repress those around you making them feel like they need to sensor themselves and change their behaviour to make you happy?

Do you choose to spend time with people who are lost in their refining fires or people who are expanding?

Do you create an equal exchange of energy with those around you?

Do you talk about how to make the world a better place with your friends or do you gossip about other people?

Answer these questions and look at what reality you have created. How do you treat the people you have brought into your orbit.

Are you happy in the world you have created?

Or

Do you want to redesign your reality?

Just some thoughts in my brain on a Saturday afternoon.

Haha

Sending love to you all! 💜💜💜

Harmony Woodington C.Ht.

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Harmony Woodington C.Ht.

Has 15 years of experience. She A background in Hypnotherapy, & Energy healing to create a successful practice helping one person at a time. .